Archive for February, 2008

Your Baby and Child: From Birth to Age Five by Penelope Leach

This is my go-to book for all infant and toddler-care matters.   I love Ms.  Leach’s writing style:  Direct, pro-child, often funny.   Her writing is clear and concise and always, always promotes love and respect for the child. 

She covers every topic a new, inexperienced parent needs to know, such as diapering, feeding, sleeping, teething, bonding and daily life with an infant and toddler.  She also provides ideas for games and more complicated toddler issues, such as introducing a new baby into the household. 

I keep this book handy and available and recommend it to everyone.

Pros: Child-centric,  direct advice.

Cons: The index doesn’t actually reference everything that is actually in the book, such as the Parent Question pages scattered throughout the book.  If you find something in those you want to find again later, you should bookmark it, or you’ll have to resort to scanning.

Your Baby and Child: From Birth to Age Five  on Amazon.com.

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Brain Games for Babies, Toddlers & Twos: 140 Fun Ways to Boost Development by Jackie Silberg

If you’re wondering whether to talk to, pick up or cuddle your baby, this is the book for you! Seriously, I have no idea for whom this book might be useful. Some of the “games” in the 12-18-month-old section include cuddling your baby and giving him/her a toy to play with while you change his/her diaper.   Are there really parents out there who would not think of doing those things?  It’s actually a little scary. 

Apparently there are a series of these by the same author, for different age groups.  I will not be reading those.  Don’t even bother checking this one out from the library… it’s that useless.

Pros:  Nice photography?  I can’t think of much else.

Cons:  All of it. 

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Baby Days: Activities, Ideas, and Games for Enjoying Daily Life with a Child Under Three by Barbara Rowley

Excellent resource not only for age-and situation-specific baby activities, but also great ideas for family-related activities to do when baby is napping (as if you didn’t already have enough to do– still). Much better than many of the other “baby games” books out there.

Pros:  Lots of ideas covering a large scope of interests.

Cons: Like a lot of baby game books, tends to skew a little older.  Don’t be alarmed if your baby/ toddler is only ready for activities designated in the book as being for a child younger than he is. 

Baby Days  on Amazon.com.

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The Nursing Mother’s Companion by Kathleen Huggins

Oh, how I love this book.    It is well-written, well-organized, and answers just about any breastfeeding question you may have. 

The book is organized by age, with “Survival Guide” chapters for each that make it very easy to find information.  The non-Survival-Guide sections offer more detailed information on subjects like traveling, pumping, nursing children with special needs and calculations to help ensure that your baby is getting the amount of milk he needs.

Ms. Huggins writes with a clean, easy-to-read style.  She forgoes the flowery, earth-mothery prose that is so common in books about breastfeeding.   There is nothing wrong with passionate paragraphs espousing the joys of breastfeeding, but it’s nice not to have to sift through it all when what you really want is an answer to your question.

Pros:  All of it.  If I were to make a required reading list for new mothers, this would lead the pack.

Cons:  I should have read it while I was still pregnant instead of waiting until I actually needed it.  But I guess I can’t blame the book for that.

The Nursing Mother’s Companion  on Amazon.com.

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The Baby Games: The Joyful Guide to Child’s Play from Birth to Three Years by Elaine Martin

This is a nice collection of games, divided by age and then by category (Word Play, Water Play, Art, Movement, etc.).  As with many of books in the baby-game oeuvre, this tend to skew a little older, so an actual 12-month old may not be able to do or understand many of the games listed in the 12-to-15-month-old chapter.  That’s no problem, though… just go a chapter down!  Psychologically this is tough on parents, though, who might start to question their child’s developmental capabilities. 

This is one that I definitely plan to buy, as the games and songs actually seem fun and the reference goes up to three years– though I’m sure many of the games could be played and used for a much longer time. 

Pros:  Lots of good ideas that are both baby- and parent-friendly, most of which are inexpensive or free.  She provides ideas for keeping things open and adaptable.  I see a lot of Montessori-themed play in here.

Cons:  No music listed for the songs.  That would be helpful to have.  She does list song origins, though, and that is nice.  Some of her ideas are a little old-school, but those parts can be skipped or modified to suit your parenting philosophy.

The Baby Games: The Joyful Guide to Child’s Play from Birth to Three Years  on Amazon.com.

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The Unschooling Handbook by Mary Griffith

This is a nice starting point for anyone who is considering Unschooling their child.  It contains lots of anecdotal information from parents, and lots of practical information about how to comply with state guidelines and how to document (when you have to).

I expected the writing to be a little pedantic, but it wasn’t at all.  This book does a nice job of demystifying Unschooling without overly glamorizing it. 

Pros:  Cleanly written, provides a straightforward outline of the basic concepts of Unschooling and how to start Unschooling your child.

Cons:  I would have liked more comments from the Unschooled children themselves, and definitely some more information about Unschooled alumni– what happens to them in college, or as job-seekers?  How is their socialization; are they able to connect with their schooled peers?

 The Unschooling Handbook  on Amazon.com.

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